The Get Over Divorce Podcast
Honest, practical coaching from divorce and relationship coach Julie Danielson, for women who are ready to stop surviving their divorce and start building a life they love.
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You can get over your divorce and still create a life you love. Meet Julie and learn what this podcast is about: breaking the shame around divorce and helping you become an empowered woman who thrives.
ListenAcceptance and responsibility are essential to healing after divorce. Here's exactly what you need to start healing, and how to spot old wounds that still need attention.
ListenTo get over the hard emotions of divorce, you first have to learn how to feel them. How to process grief, anger, and fear so they finally rest, and how to break the habit of numbing out.
ListenGuilt, blame, and shame keep you stuck after divorce. Learn how each one shows up in your life and how to release them so they stop running it.
ListenThe fear that you'll be alone forever is normal after divorce. Learn why sitting with that feeling, instead of rushing to fill the void, is part of real healing.
ListenMost people blame infidelity. Look at the reason behind even that, and new thoughts about why your marriage ended can free you from resentment.
ListenIt's the most common question divorced women ask, and the answer isn't what you think. Why it happens, and how to stop letting it hurt you.
ListenThere are four emotional phases women go through in divorce, and not everyone makes it past the first. The mindset shifts that move you from victim to a happier place.
ListenThe four types of people in relationships: Low Effort, Bare Minimum, true Partners, and Pleasers. If you keep attracting low-effort men after divorce, this is how you change that.
ListenFresh Off the Mic
Wondering if good men even exist anymore? The green flags only the real good men show, from how he handles physical touch to what his home says about him, plus "The Scroll Test."
ListenMore divorced women are choosing to stay single, and they're happier for it. What this shift says about marriage, and how to know whether staying single is a choice or a fear.
ListenAuthor Dianne Harris shares the red flags of narcissistic abuse she missed, how she got out, and how she rebuilt her life after divorce.
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Meet Your Host
I'm Julie Danielson, a divorce and relationship coach for 13 years and the host of the Get Over Divorce Podcast, ranked in the top 1.5% of podcasts worldwide.
I've been divorced too. I'm a boy-mom to two young adults, a step-mom to two amazing young women, and "Mimi" to their kids. Today I'm happily married the second time around, and I've helped hundreds of women heal, rebuild their confidence, and create lives they love after divorce.
Every episode is the same coaching I give my private clients, free, so you can start feeling better today.
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There's no set timeline, and time alone doesn't heal you. Most women feel real relief within months, not years, once they stop replaying the past and start working on their thoughts, emotions, and self-worth on purpose. In my coaching program the Collective, women do that work over six months.
Your brain keeps replaying the marriage because it's looking for an answer that makes the pain stop. Notice the thought, name it, and choose a new one on purpose. Episodes 4 and 11 walk you through it step by step.
You're ready when you're dating from wholeness, not loneliness: you like your own life, you know what you want, and you're not looking for someone to fill a void. Episode 5 covers the signs you're ready.
The show is made for women going through or recovering from divorce, but anyone healing from the end of a relationship will find tools they can use.
Get Over Divorce is free on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and most podcast apps. You can also listen right here on this page.
The podcast gives you the tools. Coaching is where you actually use them, with live help from Julie and a group of women who get it. The Circle is live group coaching for $197 a month. The Collective is six months of deep coaching, including two private sessions.
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